Our Story
Soul Serenity’s couples coaching was born not from theory—but from lived experience.
Ryan and I have been married for over 25 years. Like many couples, our story includes deep love, shared history, and seasons that tested us in ways we never imagined. Years ago, a profound betrayal in our marriage shattered our sense of safety and forced us to confront what it truly takes to heal, both individually and together. What followed was not a quick fix or a single breakthrough moment. It was years of intentional, often uncomfortable work.
For three years, we treated recovery like a full-time job, committing to individual therapy, couples therapy, and group work. We learned that rebuilding a relationship after betrayal requires far more than forgiveness or time. It requires nervous system healing, deep personal responsibility, emotional maturity, and the willingness to unlearn patterns that no longer serve.
Along that path, I discovered breathwork. My experience with it helped me move through blocks I couldn’t access through talk therapy alone. It became a turning point in my own healing. Soon after, I made the decision to become a certified breathwork facilitator so I could bring this powerful modality to our community at a time when it simply wasn’t available locally.
Ryan, in parallel, chose his own path of deep recovery; doing the work required to become emotionally safe, grounded, and accountable. Healing didn’t happen for our marriage until it happened within each of us.
Today, we continue to invest intentionally in ourselves and in our partnership. We place a high value on intimacy, honesty, and ongoing growth, individually and together. In 2025, we marked that journey with a recommitment ceremony, writing our own vows and standing before our closest people. Our 21-year-old son was by our side as best man. It was one of the most sacred and meaningful moments of our lives.
Our couples coaching work is rooted in this lived understanding:
Healing is possible, but it requires courage, structure, accountability, and the right kind of support.
At Soul Serenity, we offer a compassionate space for couples who are willing to do real work, whether you are navigating betrayal, disconnection, or simply know that something needs to change.
We walk alongside you not because we have a perfect story, but because we’ve done the work to co-create a marriage with intention. In that process, we discovered together that what’s possible on the other side of healing can be deeper, richer, and more fulfilling than we ever thought possible. We want to give other couples hope and provide a road map to a brighter future.
Our Services
Our couples coaching offerings are designed to be flexible and responsive to your unique relationship. We work with both partners individually and together, offering tailored coaching that honors the complexities of your partnership and the sacredness of your journey. Choose from focused sessions, blended individual and joint support, or more immersive experiences—each created to meet you where you are and support meaningful, sustainable change. If you’re unsure what’s right for you, we’ll help guide the way. As a married couple who’s done deep healing work ourselves, we understand the courage it takes to face the hard parts—and we’re here to walk beside you.
Choose from individual sessions for each partner or couples sessions with one or both of us! We also offer packages or can create something for your specific situation, including half day or full day intensives.
Couples Intro Package
Three-Session Coaching Experience
The Couples Intro Package is a thoughtfully designed three-session experience for couples who want support but aren’t quite sure where to begin. This package provides a balanced blend of individual insight and shared connection, allowing each partner to feel heard while also creating space to explore the relationship together. Over the course of three sessions, we focus on understanding what’s happening beneath the surface, identifying key patterns, and clarifying what kind of support will be most meaningful moving forward.
What’s Included:
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Two Individual Sessions (one per partner)
These sessions offer a confidential, supportive space for each person to share their experience, explore personal triggers and needs, and begin building clarity and emotional safety. -
One Joint Couples Session
The joint session brings you back together with greater awareness and intention—focusing on communication, connection, next steps. .
What You’ll Gain:
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Greater understanding of your individual and shared relationship dynamics
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Increased clarity around communication patterns and emotional needs
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A sense of emotional containment and safety to begin honest conversations
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Insight into whether ongoing couples coaching, individual work, or a blended approach is the best next step
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tools to support work on your own
His & Hers Coaching Package
Six Session Healing Container
This six-session container is designed to support individual growth alongside relational healing, giving each partner the time and space to do their own work—while also practicing new ways of connecting together. By combining individual sessions with intentional couples sessions, this package creates a steady rhythm of insight, integration, and shared progress.
What’s Included:
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Four Individual Sessions (two per partner)
Two one-on-one sessions per partner to explore personal patterns, emotional triggers, and relational habits—while building greater self-awareness, regulation, and responsibility. -
Two Joint Couples Sessions
Dedicated time together to apply insights, strengthen communication, rebuild connection, and practice relating with greater intention and safety.
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What You’ll Gain:
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Deeper individual accountability without placing the burden solely on the relationship
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Increased emotional regulation and communication skills
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Greater clarity around personal and shared patterns
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Intentional co-creation of a healthier, more connected partnership
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A strong foundation for ongoing couples work, if desired
Infidelity & Betrayal Trauma Recovery Coaching
Customized support for the road to recovery
This offering is designed specifically for couples navigating the impact of betrayal, infidelity, or significant breaches of trust.
Healing after betrayal requires a different kind of support—one that prioritizes emotional safety, nervous system regulation, accountability, and clear boundaries. This work often includes a combination of individual and joint sessions, tailored to meet the unique needs and readiness of each partner. The focus is on stabilizing the relationship, addressing trauma responses, and creating the conditions necessary for trust to be rebuilt over time.
Ideal for couples who are seeking structured, trauma-informed support after betrayal and are willing to engage in honest, responsible healing work. We will work with you to structure a package based on where you are in the process post-discovery.
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Individual Coaching Sessions
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Joint Couples Coaching Sessions
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Individual and/or couples Breathwork sessions
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Tools for creating safety and navigating the post-betrayal landscape
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Recommended resources for individual and joint recovery
Take the first step. Book a free call!
Every couple’s story is different. No matter where you find yourself, we believe healing is possible. Let’s connect and explore what kind of support might serve you best. This is a space to share your situation and ask questions. No pressure—just a chance to talk and see if we might be a fit to walk alongside you on this part of your journey.
